“Real Talk”

I must say I love the deep conversations and become bored quite easily with small talk. Unfortunately, most people are really uncomfortable having deep conversations. It’s disappointing to be in groups on Facebook that encourage talking about the tough things and hardly no one participates. Groups that have 100 people and you can see who looks at what you have written, but only a few, if any, actually like the post, that leaves commenting out completely. Why are we so afraid to let others see our venerable side? You are attracted to a group for a reason right? The truth is, almost everyone else is feeling the exact same thing as you are! For me, I want to put myself out there to learn and connect with similar individuals. Support, encouragement and yes, even the “Truth bombs” are all the reasons I need to say and hear the hard things that most shy away from. I’m sorry if this offends anyone but if you’re just there to watch what everyone else says then that’s a cop out! You will always live your life on the sidelines.

I am trying harder to put myself out there and yes, it’s difficult to hear the truth sometimes, but it’s those things I need the most. It’s people willing to articulate those things to me out of Love, that’s what“ real talk” is.

Of course, just my opinion, we all have one right? Some give them from a position of love, some give them from a place of meanness. Most don’t say anything at all, which makes me sad.

Ginger 💜